I'm Still in Love With My Ex, But They're Not in Love With Me - What Can I Do?

If you are saying to yourself "I'm still in love with my ex" but you don't believe that they feel the same way, then this is obviously a tough situation. The hardest part is that you don't really know for sure what your ex feels.

They may have told you they are not in love with you, but that doesn't mean they really felt that way. If you are truly able to say "I'm still in love with my ex", then it is quite possible that they feel the same way.

Just because you are still in love with them doesn't mean it's the best thing to get back with them. Remember, there was a reason why you broke up in the first place, and whatever it is, it probably has yet to be resolved.

If you're saying to yourself "I'm still in love with my ex", the first thing you need to do is figure out why the breakup occurred in the first place. It may be difficult at first, but over time, you need to take an objective look at the relationship. Try to answer the question "is my relationship worth saving?"

The answer to that question will be the most important factor for you moving forward. If the issues that caused the breakup seem impossible to resolve even after you reconcile, then, even if you are saying "I'm still in love with my ex", it might be best to move forward and love them from a distance.

On the other hand, if after you have examined things objectively, you can honestly say that your relationship is worth saving and the issues that caused the breakup can be resolved, then your next step is to try to determine if your ex feels the same way.

Forget what they have said, instead look for some tell-tale signs that they still love you. Here are a few of them:

1) They maintain contact with you.

2) You "coincidentally" run into them in public places from time to time.

3) They have a new and refreshing look when you see them.

4) They have not started a new relationship with anyone else.

If one of more of these is true, then they may also be saying I'm still in love with my ex. If this is the case, then you are now ready to begin the next steps toward restoring the relationship.